Simple moments. Father's day. my heart

This weekend was hard, I've got to admit.

Despite going to the Denver zoo, dinners, and movies with friends, I knew I would miss Father's Day (back home)

and

I knew it would be tough.

And it was.

I made it all day....

Busy with spoiling Ry for his day. He deserved it.

He treats me like a queen always....I wanted to do the same back.

We were busy making Ry happy: sleeping in, breakfast in bed, kids homemade cards,

primary songs at church, his favorites treats: strawberry shortcake, ice cold cokes (in a bottle), hoops with the boys...


I love Ry with all my heart.

He is such a good daddy and such a good hubby. He deserves the world. And that we tried to give.... and we did, he was happy.. (no pic here..RY is in bed with his jammies! it's cute :)

It was his day...



But last night, just for a moment, I was sad...

I knew my family was getting together for my dad at 6:30.

Mentally, I tried not to look at the clock knowing it was the first big family event I would miss...

but the house got quiet, the boys watching an old NBA classic game, I was alone for awhile.

I looked at the clock, 5:45.

Darn, I would be getting my dessert ready and ushering the kids out the door to get up to mom and dad's.

But tonight I wasn't.

We were home for the night.

No rushing off to Grandparents, no seeing family, sister's, parents, cousins.

No family, just us.

So instead, an idea: a walk around the lake.


A walk to get out, to clear my mind, to get the kids out. To spend time with Ry on Father's day....

but (also in my mind) a walk to start to create our own memories.

That concept I already understood.....moving away meant it was just us.

Last night I needed a reminder...


The Stott's have a new life, a new beautiful life...

Quit feeling sorry for myself, quit moping around and looking at the clock.

It was time. Time to get out...


And out we did.

It was lovely!

So lovely, just what I needed, what my heart needed.

My dad knows I love him so much. What a great father I have, a legacy, an example to me. A man I love and respect more than anything.

And I also have a man that I love dearly and so grateful for.

A good thought to remember.

I switched my attitude and cheered up....

I smiled and we walked around the lake.

My little family with Ry...

We saw fish, cranes, birds of all types, bullfrogs, and of course lots and lots of bunnies!

At the end Ry and I watched the boys go bunny catching....

the boys were running and running trying to catch those little white tails...

Ry and I enjoyed the moment together...it was sunset.

The sun was dipping below the horizon, creating an orange glow, a warm breeze was blowing...

we talked about how gratefulwe are for our families.



It was a great father's day indeed.

Oh yes it was.

All the men in my life, I am grateful for.

And grateful for new traditions and new things.

Missed you all back home, had a "moment"

and

now

I am good to go...




Love you Ry, love you Dad!

Happy Father's Day!

xo!

hiking the "Y" with Nie

I really don't know quite what to say in this post. Because really I don't know how to say it..... Saturday night was an honor. Hiking the "Y" with Nie was an amazing experience. It was a great night.

I knew when I read Nie's post about hiking the "Y" for her one year anniversary and her invitation for all to join, that I was going. I didn't hesitate knowing I could support her in some way. Granted she has no clue who I am, and it wouldn't make any difference if I was there, but I wanted to go for her and for my own heart.

When I read Nie's blog back in Sept of 2008, it changed me. It changed me forever. I read her blog posts and she blew me away with her attitude towards life, towards motherhood, and simply her outlook on life. I loved Nie. She loved every day, she enjoyed the simple things, she lived life to the fullest.

Kim and I went together on Saturday night. Kim and I have followed Nie throughout her accident. We prayed just like the rest of the blogging world for her to heal and to wake up. We were pulling for Christian, Nie and her family. And in some sort of weird way, I almost felt like I "knew" Nie like a sister. I felt like we all did, she was such an special person and we all loved Nie.

Kim and I drove to Provo to the beginning of the trail head. We know Provo because we both went to Brigham Young University. (95-97) Ry and I dated and fell in love in Provo, so it's a little part of my history. Plus my parents just got back from their 3 yr mission in Provo. Kim has 3 or 4 siblings that live in Provo and Utah County. So Provo feels like a little bit of "home" for us.



We parked and walked up to the trail head and immediately recognized Nie's family. All of her cute sisters: Courtney, Lucy, and Page were there. Her brothers were all there too. Then Nie's cute mom and dad came and they were all smiles and happiness. What a beautiful supportive family. I immediately teared up. I just felt like it was such an honor to meet such a great family.

(And it's strange when you blog, you feel like you "know" these people b/c of the pictures and posts that you have read. I think you fellow bloggers understand what I mean.)

start of the trail head...her family and friends

We were all gathered around waiting and then
Nie and Christian pulled up to the curve and got out.




She was beautiful. She was amazing. Like I said, words can't really express correctly....I cried under my glasses, not for sadness but for joy of Nie. She came out so happy and ready to go. But she stopped and turned and hugged a couple next to Kim and I. Then she turned to me and she reached up and hugged me. She said, "thank you, thank you for coming." and I was so choked up but I said , "no, thank

Y O U." and I told her I loved her. She immediately said thanks for all the support and she hugged Kim too and she had tears in her eyes. I was so humbled. And I know she didn't know us and we didn't know her but the love was there.

"GO NIE"

She hugged a few more people and went to the start of the trail head. Her dad thanked everyone for this year of support. He talked about Nie and the accident. You can tell he is such a great man and he is so proud of Nie and her life.





Nie and Christian started the hike hand in hand. She was so strong and hiked up the switchbacks back and forth, never stopping. It was so cool. People clapped and cheered for Nie when she made it to the top. The family took pictures and congratulated Nie. Kim and I sat in the far corner and stayed out of the way. It was such a great moment to be a part of. I loved being there and watching Nie accomplish that. It was such a beautiful night and a moment to remember....

On top of the Y. The sunset and the view was amazing.

Looking down into the Provo valley.

Nie's kids and family were all around her. She has so many great people that love her.

Stephanie and Christian at the top.

WE watched the sun drop and drop....

To this view! It was so pretty.

Kim and I left before Nie and her family and we hiked down the trail.

I think we were both taking the night in and feeling so lucky to be a part of Nie's accomplishment.

Thanks for sharing the night with me Kim.

Like I said, it was such an honor to meet Nie. I was nervous about this post because I didn't feel it was my place to put myself with Nie. She is honestly the most amazing person I "know." She really has changed me and changed so many of us. I am just humbled. Nie has blessed all of our lives.

I will N E V E R forget this experience and hiking the "Y with Nie.