Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Ashlyn's swimming courage.

*I did this post last weekend, but to crazy to post it...so here it is now!* and this is for my bloggin journal...!


Ashlyn stood nervously in line behind 6 other kids waiting their turn to tryout for the team.


Suits on, goggles in hand, each child had to swim a 100 Individual Medley.

One by one the kids dove in the pool and swam their laps...
25 yd butterfly, then backstroke, next breaststroke, and finally freestyle.
One by one they got out as we watched them talk to the head coach,
nodding their heads up and down.
Then the parents taking their child's hand and walking out the glass doors.


"What did that mean?" Ashlyn asked me. "Did they make the team? or were they cut?" I was not exactly sure myself so I just said, "get ready, it's almost your turn..."


and swim your best...."

Ashlyn was so nervous, I knew this was hard for her to tryout in front of the coaches, she has a little bit of "stage fright," in life.... but from the encouragement of Ry and I she wanted to try out for a year-round swim team
First swim meet summer 09



Ashlyn dives in and goes.....her hips kicking hard down, 2 kicks to every big arm...Butterfly is the hardest stroke in swimming...it takes years to perfect it and definitely takes the most endurance....Ash was swimming it well!

The head coach immediately walked over and grabbed the other 2 coaches. They all watched Ashlyn swim butterfly, then backstroke, followed



ashlyn summer 09



by breaststroke and last (and her best) freestyle...

She gets out, dripping wet, she looks up at me and then at the coach anxiously.... not sure how to read her...the coach says,

"wow, great stroke, will you get in and swim butterfly for me again?"

Ashlyn looks at me for encouragement, I smile and she jumps back in the pool..

She starts swimming and the coaches start talking amongst each other.

Ash gets out and the head coach says to her,

" beautiful stroke you have,"

you also have natural talent,

we would be honored for you to join our team."

Wahoooo, yay, as a mom I was secretly beaming inside!!

and a competitive swimmer myself for 7 yrs plus I was praying

she would love this sport!


She did it and they loved her. Ash was smiling happy..

we followed the coach the other direction (not towards the glass doors yay!)
and into her office and got the paperwork.

Ashlyn was the only kid to make the swim team that night!
I was so proud of her!


So this weekend,
Ashlyn had her first swim meet as a Dimple Dell Devil Ray member



We woke up early to get to the warm-ups for the swim meet.....



Oh man she was nervous....her first big meet since summer.
She had been practicing for weeks now....

Up to the blocks she went, she was ready


she swam as hard as her little body would go.......


Ashlyn took first in all her events.



we were so proud of Ashlyn.

I told her I didn't care if she first or last place, I was just proud of her for swimming and working hard. She swims 3 days a week so far.

Two weeks into her swimming,
the coaches asked to see me. They asked Ashlyn to join the most competitive level of swimming.....
She would have to commit to practices every single day,
and lots more swim meets, trainings and practices.
I am proud of Ashlyn and I left it up to her....



Swimming Championships Aug 09


As I have said before on my blog, I feel full heartily that kids a talent or a hobby...

One that gives them self-esteem and makes them feel they are capable of setting

goals and working hard.

I don't care if it is soccer, swimming, art, jump roping, each child NEEDS to feel
that they excel in some area....
they need that confidence in this crazy world.
So we will see, what AShlyn decides...not sure where her road lies.

For now I think, we are still 3 days a week for Ashlyn...but that may change soon...we will see!
I am proud of her!

Love her and great job!

6 comments:

Natalie said...

That build up was so great. You had a climax and everything. I had anxiety reading it. That's awesome for Ash. Fabulous job. I do agree that kids need something. Whatever. Something to keep them out of trouble and build confidence. Can't wait to hear what she decides. She will have a beautiful swimmers body just like her mama. With natural talent, I hope she goes for it. Fun stuff..

Robyn said...

I had the chills the whole time reading this. Mostly for her, but for you too.
Sounds like you have one talented little swimmer.(a mini Tawny) I know this day was so special to you, and I can't wait to hear what she decides.
Good job Ashlyn!!!!

tawny said...

Thanks girls! I think you two KNOW exactly what I am talking about....way to go mama's!
loves to ya both!

Penny said...

Oh, Tawny, I loved reading this blog. I am proud of Ashes too. What a cool thing for her to take first plaace in her first real swim meet as a Devil Ray. I cannot wait to come and watch her swim. I loved watching you swim. Such beautifiul symmetry that you had and here is your girl with similiar talents. Your writing is awesome.

tawny said...

i had a really fun time. i'm so glad to be a devil ray!!! they have awesome coaches and i have a couple friends. anyway, thxs mom for doing that post, i love you and i'm glad i can swim just like you!! i love to swim.

by the way, this is Ashlyn!!!!!

Brooke said...

I'm so proud of her. I LOVE swimming, it is such a wonderful sport that isn't recognized enough. It is tough work and she definitely looks amazing. I'm so glad she is following in your footsteps...so fun!! Lucky to have a sweet daughter for sure :)